I can now successfully connect via WIFI to the OBDX cables in MAUI by using the custom library I have built from IOS directly.
Now.. whats the catch? Well.. its only working if using Visual Studio on a MAC

I have not yet found a solution to compiling the code using the correct Microsoft.iOS.SDK as per a previous message. So it does work.. but... I need to somehow make the MAC VS compile using the SDK version used on windows, or somehow edit the DLL version to use the same as windows (Which may cause more problems).
Im just happy it works, and its proven a point that the factory socket implementation with microsoft does have some sort of flaw.